Yet note-taking when personal and emotional difficulties are being expressed can be very off-putting. It may seem as if intimate details are being written down (almost like taking evidence); it makes the interview too formal (even if any interview inevitably has elements of formality built into it); it is very difficult for a listener to record notes and at the same time to look at the speaker (Guideline 4 will demonstrate how essential it is to be able to do this). Where conversations are much more
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